SOCIALITE AND "PORN STAR" PARIS HILTON
Porn used to be relegated to a video hidden in the bottom drawer, or a magazine under the mattress. Today, it's part of everyday life.
Hugh Hefner's girlfriends have become TV's "girls next door.'' Porn stars have MySpace pages and do voiceovers for video games. And while "porn on demand'' is standard for hotel TVs and upgraded cable packages, it's even easier to find it with a few clicks on the computer.
In April, more than a third of the U.S. Internet audience visited sites that fit into the online "adult'' category, according to comScore Media Metrix.
So the message is clear: In today's world, sex doesn't just sell. The pervasiveness of porn has made sexiness - from subtle to raunchy - a much-sought-after attribute online, at school and even at work.
Many agree that the trend has had a particularly strong influence on young women - in some cases, taking shape as an unapologetic embracing of sexuality and exhibitionism.
"I am one of those girls,'' says Holly Eglinton, a 31-year-old Canadian who recently won a talent search competition to appear as an unclothed newscaster on the Internet's "Naked News.'' She auditioned after meeting a producer for the show on a social networking site where she's posted provocative photos of herself - an increasingly common practice.
For Eglinton, taking off her clothes for an Internet audience was freeing, fun and a little rebellious.
"It's something that sort of suits my personality,'' she says. "I'm kind of an extrovert and a bit of a camera hog, a poser.''
It's a prevalent sentiment in our look-at-me culture. But many wonder if it really is empowering, especially for younger women and girls who try to emulate what's already on the Web.
Too often, educators and health professionals say, the results are cases of "Girls Gone Wild'' - gone wild.
Michael Simon, a therapist and high school counselor in the San Francisco Bay area, has seen an increasing number of girls and young women in his private practice after episodes in which they undressed in front of a webcam for people they met online.
"Instead of pornography or performative sexuality being one choice among many ways of being sexual, it's essentially become the standard of sexiness,'' says Simon. "It's also the standard by which a man or woman is a prude, depending on how much they embrace that kind of sexuality.''
Yvonne K. Fulbright, a sexologist and author who co-hosts the "Sex Files'' program on Sirius satellite radio, also has seen the shift in attitude.
She's posted messages on Craigslist looking for people who want to comment on various topics for the show - and, instead, often receives responses from young women who send descriptions of their breast and waist sizes.
"They're under the impression that they can be the next big thing,'' Fulbright says. "Unfortunately, for a lot of females that means taking off your clothes and being sexual.
"It's a really warped sense of what it means to be sexy.''
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